Catching Up With Annie Hawthorne '14

On Nov. 27, 2023, the Annie Hawthorne-coached Hanover Hawks began their regular season at Thomas Dale with considerable enthusiasm and lofty goals.
She, her staff, and their players were well aware that the Knights were quick, fast, and supremely talented and one of the top teams in Central Virginia, but they were nowhere near prepared for the 80-20 defeat they absorbed that night in Chester and the very long bus ride home that followed.
 
“The immediate response was surprise,” the 2014 Collegiate graduate said one day recently as she reflected on the painful moment. “That wasn’t what we expected. Then there was some anger. I couldn’t believe we were scheduled to play them.”
 
Hawthorne knew instinctively, though, that living in the past, even the immediate past, would not be in her team’s best interest.
 
“We watch a lot of film, and it’s really helpful, but we didn’t show the Thomas Dale film to the girls,” Hawthorne said. “There were obviously a lot of learning moments in that game, but they weren’t about X’s and O’s. They were about how you respond to difficult teams and to your own self-doubts.
 
“We told them we were proud of them. We told them we needed to move forward and come back stronger. Remember that game, remember the feeling, but don’t dwell on it.”
 
The Hawks quickly regained their equilibrium.
 
They’ve now won five straight games. They won the Change Bracket of the 804 Coaches for Change Community Classic. Their record stands at 8-4. A Class 4 signatory in the Virginia High School League, they’re poised to make a run deep into the playoffs.
 
“I know all coaches say this,” she said, “but we’re looking to move forward and improve. I think we’ve improved tremendously throughout the season. The way we responded to the Thomas Dale game was amazing. When we played against Matoaca and St. Catherine’s [in the Community Classic], we hit the ground running. We were fast. We were confident. People really got to see that Hanover is no joke. We have only 11 girls, so we’re looking to keep growing and stay healthy and stay positive and keep getting better.”
 
At Collegiate, Hawthorne played varsity basketball for five years and, with 1,562 points, is the leading scorer in program history. She ranks first in made 2-point shots (458) and free throws (430), third in steals (213), and 10th in rebounds (439). She was honored four times as All-League of Independent Schools and thrice as All-VISAA.
 
She earned a B.A. in sociology from the University of Virginia, then moved to Denver, where, during the next three-and-a-half years, she worked several jobs, the last of which was in a residential treatment facility.
 
It was there that she developed an interest in working with children with mental health issues. She then returned to Richmond and earned a MEd in counseling from Virginia Commonwealth University. This is her first year as a school counselor and coach at Hanover.
 
One day recently as she geared up for the stretch run of her season, she spoke of her journey.
 
How did you get involved with basketball?
My brothers (Cole ’07 and Jess ’09) were the biggest reason I was so into every sport. When your brothers are playing every sport, you’re playing every sport. My actual love for basketball was always there. It was always my favorite sport. It was in 6th or 7th grade when I started taking it really seriously and playing AAU year-round.
 
What’s your best basketball memory at Collegiate?
Senior Night. The reason I say that is we all know girls sports haven’t always had the same fan base as boys sports. My senior year, all our players were Instagramming, tweeting, texting all our friends to come to our games. Long story short, we actually had a student section standing up, cheering us on [at Senior Night]. It was in Jacobs Gym, and you can hear a pin drop if there’s nobody in there, but it was so loud and so electric. It was really cool that we got so many fans for my last home game in Jacobs.
 
Who were your mentors at Collegiate?
(Head girls varsity basketball) Coach (Rives) Fleming, of course. He’s my mentor now as a coach. And definitely (three-sport star) Dominique Meeks. When I was in 7th grade, she was a senior. I never had the opportunity to play on a team with her, but I knew who she was and always looked up to her. I wanted to be as good as she was. Still to this day, I think about her often. She was the all-around student athlete and such a good person too. And Mayme Donohue is another Collegiate girls legend. As a player, I didn’t really know her because she’s several years older than me, but she ended up coaching my varsity team four of my five years and saw me develop from an 8th grader to a junior.
 
What inspired you to get into coaching?
My second year at UVA, I had a friend (Trent Holden) who went to St. Anne’s-Belfield. She reached out and asked if I was interested in helping coach the JV team at STAB. I said, “Sure, why not? Sounds kind of fun.” I didn’t really think of it as a career at that time. I coached there for two years and then, when I was back in Richmond in grad school, I had a flexible schedule and was Robby Turner’s assistant on the JV.
 
How did you end up with the head varsity position at Hanover?
I got the counseling job first. Then, I emailed the athletic director (Bob Bollander) and said, “My name’s Annie Hawthorne. I’m a new counselor. I want to coach anything that you have.” I didn’t even say I wanted to coach basketball. I told him I’d coach any sport, but my background was mostly basketball, but I’ve also coached some (Cub) volleyball (at Collegiate). He said, “We actually have a varsity basketball position open.”  I thought, That’s not what I meant, but OK. I interviewed, and here I am.
 
You work with three experienced assistant coaches, Richard Stewart, John Mardigian, and Adam Murphy.  How do share the coaching responsibilities?
We have three guys with awesome experience. They’re putting in a lot of the X’s and O’s and bringing a lot of drills and strategy to the table. I’m the one that’s scheduling and communicating. Each game plan, any changes might come from the coaches, then to me, then to the girls.
  
If one coach does it all and it’s my way or the highway, you’re never going to have that highest level team. It’s really important [to share responsibility] because it shows the girls how to work as a team. We’re asking them to work as a team on and off the court. If your coaching staff is super-separated and one person does it all and doesn’t want to hear the opinions of others, that’s not a good example for the girls. We want to show them that we’re all experts in different things, but we all have weaknesses as well, and if we put all our strengths together, we have an elite coaching staff.
 
What makes basketball fun for you?
What’s cool about basketball is that it’s evolving every single year. When I was in high school, the Euro step wasn’t much of a thing. Now they’re teaching nine-year-old girls how to put a Euro step into their game. That’s just an example. The game is always evolving. The level of play is getting better. There’s always something to add. There’s something always new you can do. You go in. You learn. You’re always a student of the game. That’s my favorite thing about it.
 
What makes coaching basketball fun for you?
The relationships with the girls, for sure. My friends now joke that I’m stuck in high school. All you do is hang out with high schoolers. Well, that’s my job. I love it. There’s something fun about the high school age. Maybe going back to Mayme Donohue’s mentorship for me. She got to see me develop. She taught me a lot of good things that I know and implement in the game and in my everyday life.  If you have the smallest impact on one kid, it’s all worth it.
 
How do you deal with the ups and downs and stresses that are part of coaching?
Balance is my life’s mantra. We have our moments where we’re super high and super excited and our moments where we’re super down, but it’s so important to channel both of those and stay even keeled. I give myself grace if I do have those freak-out moments, but I also remind myself that it’s a journey. You have to maintain an even keel because you’re also setting an example for kids. I think about that a lot. I know people are watching me whether it’s my players or younger kids or our fans. I want to make sure I’m representing myself and Hanover well.
 
How does one as accomplished as you were as a player coach those who don’t have your talent or love for the game?
I look at as it’s not black and white. It’s not 100 percent committed or not committed or great player versus [less talented] players. If I have a player who maybe isn’t the best, let’s find what she’s good at and celebrate that. What are the little things we can work on throughout the season to make her feel accomplished? Setting goals and helping her realize that her role, no matter what it is, is important. You’re on this team for a reason. You’re contributing, and how do I make sure you know that you’re still a vital member of the team, even if you aren’t the best player?
  
Sounds like you’re enjoying the challenge and having fun.
Oh, my gosh. I’m having a blast. More work than I thought but way more fun.
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